Why I Don’t Work With Every Client — And Why That’s a Good Thing
When someone reaches out for therapy, it’s often after a lot of reflection, courage, and hope. I deeply respect that process, and I want to honor each person’s vulnerability in seeking support. That’s why I believe one of the most important first steps in the therapeutic relationship is ensuring a strong fit — both relationally and clinically.
As a therapist, I don’t take on every person who contacts me. That’s not because I don’t care — in fact, it’s the opposite. I care deeply about providing ethical, effective care, and that sometimes means acknowledging when someone’s needs would be better served by a clinician with a different specialization or scope of practice.
Why Fit Matters in Therapy
Therapy is not one-size-fits-all. Every therapist brings a specific set of training, experience, and focus areas. Just like in medicine — where you wouldn’t expect a dermatologist to treat heart conditions — therapists also work within their areas of expertise.
When there’s a mismatch between a client’s needs and a therapist’s training, it can lead to frustration, stalled progress, or even harm. A good fit ensures that you’re working with someone who not only understands your experiences but is also equipped to help you navigate them effectively.
My Specialization and Scope
In my work, I specialize in supporting individuals with issues such as anxiety, stress, emotional regulation, life transitions, and personal growth. I also offer neurofeedback as a complementary approach for those looking to improve focus, resilience, and nervous system balance.
However, there are certain clinical presentations — such as more complex or severe mental health needs — that fall outside my scope of practice. When I recognize this, I refer clients to trusted colleagues who are trained to provide the level of care required. This isn’t a rejection — it’s a commitment to ensuring you receive the right kind of support.
Boundaries Are a Form of Care
I understand that being told “I’m not the right fit” can feel discouraging, especially when you’ve been searching for help. But I want to assure you: it’s never about judgment or lack of compassion. It’s about respect — for your time, your healing, and your right to receive the highest quality of care for your specific needs.
Being selective about who I work with allows me to show up fully and responsibly for the clients I do serve — and to maintain the integrity of the work I do.
Finding the Right Support
If we aren’t the right match, I will always do my best to point you toward someone who may be. Whether that’s a specialist in a particular diagnosis, a provider with a different therapeutic style, or a clinic that offers a wider range of services — I’ll help you find the next step.
Because ultimately, therapy should feel safe, supportive, and suited to you.
If you’re considering working together and want to learn more about my approach — including neurofeedback — feel free to explore the NeurOptimal YouTube channel or reach out to schedule a consultation. I’m here to help you find what’s best for your healing.